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Do men and women no longer admire and trust each other?

webmaster — Fri, 02 Dec 2016 05:56:35 +0000

Do men and women no longer admire and trust each other?
Homiletic and Pastoral Review, December 2016
[A public lecture given at Strathmore University, Nairobi: Oct. 2015]
As it is posed, the question is too absolute. And I would not give any absolute answer to it. However, it does imply something; and yes, I think there is less admiration and trust between the two sexes than before. Nevertheless, there remains a strong natural attraction between the two. That makes for a more complex and perhaps more unstable relationship; and there I wish to offer some reflections.
Sexual attraction can be noble; then it inspires respect, and can be a preface to sexual love that is truly generous. But it can also degenerate into a mean desire that just wants to use sexuality in a self-centered way. In the case of men, the self-satisfaction sought can often be one of simple lust; in the case of women, it may just as much be one of vanity.

Masculinity & Femininity: The Enchantment of Complementarity

webmaster — Tue, 08 Oct 2013 12:28:46 +0000

Masculinity & Femininity: The Enchantment of Complementarity [1]
(Position Papers, Dublin, no. 470. June-July 2013, pp. 22-27)
A disenchanted world
What are we to make of the world we live in? A world dominated by science, overawed by technology - and disenchanted with humanity. We have no wonder left for our own life, no sense that the big mysteries around us are those which touch us in the depths of our most personal existence: love, friendship, sexuality, marriage, family life, freedom, commitment...
One of the main things gone is romance. We live in a cynical world, bereft of ideals, where good and noble dreams are only for kids, and no longer even for them. It is indeed a disenchanted world.

WHAT'S WRONG WITH SEX?

webmaster — Sun, 23 Oct 2016 16:14:44 +0000

WHAT'S WRONG WITH SEX?
[This article was published some forty years ago, in a social context different to that obtaining today. Hence some ideas presented may seem dated. Yet I feel that the appeal to the nobler side of young people, coupled with the conviction that such an appeal may work, still has validity. So, in case it may be of use today to some young people, especially girls, I republish it.]
Love stories
Many of our ideas about life come from fiction. A case in point is boy-girl relations. The way many boys and girls relate to one another is largely based on what they read in books or see on TV or internet. So?...
Long ago, but not too long to remember - when I was a teenager - , most boy-girl stories and movies were just plain romance: pretty corny in fact. No deep ideas about love: just everything leading nicely and easily up to a married "happy-ever-after" ending. Sex, in today's sense, practically didn't enter.

Sexual identity in marriage and family life (The Linacre Quarterly, vol. 61/3 (1994), pp. 75-86)

webmaster — Fri, 30 Aug 2013 11:21:28 +0000

"Why can't a woman be more like a man?", complained Henry Higgins in "My Fair Lady". Today he wouldn't be let get away with the remark without some people (not necessarily feminists) retorting: "and why can't a man be more like a woman?" Others might not only reject both complaints, but even question the importance of a man having to be like a man or a woman having to be like a woman. Indeed, if asked, they might be hard put to say what being a man or being a woman properly means, apart from elementary bodily differences.

Sex and Love before Marriage

webmaster — Fri, 20 Jul 2012 07:16:25 +0000

Sex and Love before Marriage [1]
The sexual relationship is a key factor in the normal process by which each man or woman grows to maturity. Sexuality presents itself to the vast majority of people as filled with interest and indeed fascination. It holds out the hope of a special happiness; and yet is so often characterized by tension and strife. It can be colored by idealism, and clouded by obsession. Tending to draw people powerfully together, it can also leave them bitterly separated.
If sexuality is so important in personal development and in interpersonal relationships, why should it be such a delicate matter to handle, and so filled with complexities and dangers?
It may help towards unraveling this mystery if we start from the concept of simple friendship, especially as the sexual relationship we wish to consider here implies or should imply a special form of friendship.
Friendship

Sant'Agostino e la Sessualità Coniugale [1] (Annales Theologici 5 (1991) 185-206)

webmaster — Sat, 02 Jun 2012 11:33:53 +0000

Sant'Agostino e la Sessualità Coniugale [1] (Annales Theologici 5 (1991) 185-206)

Nessuno ha mai messo in dubbio la genialità del pensiero di Sant'Agostino. Ciò nonostante, alcuni sostengono che non era privo di una vena di pessimismo, specialmente per quanto concerne la sessualità umana; e che l'influenza successiva di Agostino - in proporzione alla sua genialità - avrebbe segnato la dottrina della Chiesa, fino ai nostri giorni, con un'etica sessuale insufficiente e negativa. Tale giudizio - a mio parere - non è giusto né verso Sant'Agostino né verso la dottrina cattolica sulla morale sessuale.

Homosexualidad y Matrimonio

webmaster — Mon, 21 Feb 2011 10:58:36 +0000

Homosexualidad y Matrimonio
(adaptado de Ius Canonicum, XLI, N. 81, 2001, págs. 105-144)
I CONSIDERACIÓN DE LA HOMOSEXUALIDAD EN LA JURISPRUDENCIA.
II CONSIDERACIÓN DE LA HOMOSEXUALIDAD EN EL MUNDO SECULAR.
III EL «DIAGNOSTIC AND STATIST1CAL MANUAL OF MENTAL DISORDERS» (DSM).
IV PSIQUIATRÍA Y CIENCIA.
V INFLUJOS CULTURALES EN LA PSIQUIATRÍA.
VI PSIQUIATRÍA Y VALORES HUMANOS.
VII ¿CONSTITUYE LA HOMOSEXUALIDAD UNA PERTURBACIÓN PSÍQUICA?
VIII LA HOMOSEXUALIDAD EN LA ANTROPOLOGÍA CRISTIANA.
IX RELEVANCIA JURÍDICA DEL DIAGNÓSTICO PSIQUIÁTRICO DE LA HOMOSEXUALIDAD.

I. CONSIDERACIÓN DE LA HOMOSEXUALIDAD EN LA JURISPRUDENCIA CANÓNICA

Il ruolo umanizzante della sessualità (Studi Cattolici 497, 2003, pp. 100-108)

webmaster — Mon, 02 Aug 2010 13:13:33 +0000

Complementarità dei sessi e integrazione delle «virtù» maschili e femminili per una adeguata comprensione della propria identità sono le note salienti di questa riflessione antropologica di Cormac Burke, fondata su una evidenza che è insieme storica e ontologica: le due forme, inseparabili e irriducibili, in cui si da la persona umana.

Sexualidad, humanidad y vida. Istmo, Mexico (Marzo - Abril 1997)

webmaster — Mon, 02 Aug 2010 12:12:50 +0000

La relación entre los sexos está diseñada para constituir una fuerza fundamental que humanice a las personas y a la sociedad. Tanto hombres como mujeres, a través del contraste y la complementariedad, adquieren una comprensión más profunda de la vida: de su origen, significado y fin último.

Does Homosexuality Nullify a Marriage?

webmaster — Mon, 02 Aug 2010 07:08:44 +0000

[in Same-Sex Attraction; a Parents' Guide (Eds. John F Harvey and Gerald V. Bradley) St. Augustine's Press, South Bend, Indiana, 2003 (pp. 33-49)]

Canon Law and Recent Developments in Psychology and Psychiatry